on Feb 13, 20

The Hottest Ways to Spice Up Your Valentine's Day

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and I’m sure you have a lot of romantic things planned. After all, it’s the day of love and you owe it to yourself to make it as special as you can for your partner. However, some of us believe that Valentine’s Day takes out the spontaneity in love.

And not just that. The Valentine’s Day routine can sometimes become boring, especially if you keep doing the same thing year after year. Don’t get me wrong. It’s still nice to get your partner some flowers, chocolates, and some beautiful gifts.

But perhaps it’s time to shake things up a little and make your Valentine’s Day this year a little bit different and intriguing. Well, we may have a few tips that can help you here below.

Hire a Private Chef

Valentine’s Day dinner is probably one of the highlights of the entire day. But instead of just doing the same stuff, how about hiring a private chef to prepare a nice home-cooked meal for you and your love? 

It’s such a romantic experience and something so out of the box that she will never see it coming. You can even have a customized menu specially prepared for that night just for the two of you.

The Art of Seduction

The best way to end a perfect Valentine’s Day is with a passionate night of lovemaking. But you can make the moment more special by seducing your partner all day long. Sex is an integral part of the intimacy most couples share.

But it can get boring sometimes, especially for people who have been together for a long time. However, you can make Valentines a special night for him by wearing seductive clothes and teasing him all day.

Choose the Right Music

If you are going to hire a private chef to make your Valentine’s Day dinner, it’s only fair to set the right ambiance with the best romantic songs. Choosing a playlist together is always recommended. It’s one of the things you get to do together as a couple and enjoy the experience.

To make it even more special, focus on songs that mean something to both of you. It could a song that reminds you of the first time you met or songs that take you back to some of the most memorable moments in your relationship.

Role Play

Role-playing is always a go-to option for people who want to spice up their sex life. If you are not doing it already, you may want to start this Valentine. Role-playing allows you to act out your fantasies and bring a new experience to the bedroom. However, make sure you talk to your partner about your desires and fantasies. Both of you must be into it otherwise it may get weird.

Physical Contact Is Important

There are so many ways to express love. But nothing is more effective than physical contact.  Something as simple as holding hands can go a long way in reminding your loved ones what they mean to you. But don’t just stop at holding hands.

Find every reason to make physical contact with your partner this Valentine’s Day. Public displays of affection (PDAs) are also highly recommended. Even though PDA may be beyond the comfort zone of some people, it’s so exciting to try out.


Getting in the right Valentine’s Day mood is crucial in making sure this special day goes on as planned. Sexting is one simple way you can explore to set the right mood just in time for the evening dinner. Start sexting in the morning and keep at it for the rest of the day. Incorporate some sexy pictures in there too.

Incorporate a Sensual Massage into the Itinerary

Finally, you may also want to include a sensual massage as part of your Valentine’s Day itinerary. Try to get the massage just before dinner. This allows you to be fully relaxed and ready for the night. You can have the massage as a couple or separately. Either way, you will love it.

Valentine’s Day is supposed to be one of the most special days of the year for any couple. However, with a few adjustments, you can make this day even more special. The simple tips above should help you out.

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