Everybody wants to have an exciting and fulfilling sex life. However, due to many reasons, sometimes it can be very difficult to achieve it. The good news is that, making sex more enjoyable does not take a lot in fact there are things you can start doing today that will make a huge difference. In this post we share 10 great sex tips for men. Read through to the end and you are sure to learn something.
1. Acknowledge You Have a Role to Play
A lot of men out there often seem to believe that it’s the job of the woman to keep things steamy in the bedroom. While to some extent this is true, men too have a role to play. The moment you acknowledge that your fulfillment in bed has something to do with you, the sooner you will start to put in more effort. This will definitely help in the long run.
2. Talk about Sex
Communication is crucial in enhancing any sexual encounter. Talk to your partner about your sexual desires and listen to hers as well. Tell her what you want to do, what you like, and most importantly, what you don’t like. Talking about sex helps you to be more comfortable about your partners’ sexual preferences and more open minded about them. It can have a huge effect in enhancing the passion in the bedroom.
3. Sex Is Not a Routine
Ever heard of the saying, “Our sex life has become so boring these days.” Well, it’s not uncommon for couples to reach such a hopeless place, especially if they’ve been together for a long time. More often than not, a routine sex life will almost lead to a boring sex life. After all, no one wants to do the same thing over and over again. At some point they’ll probably get sick of it. In that case, try and change things a little bit. It could be something as simple as changing the sex position or the location. But try to give you partner a different experience every time you get intimate.
4. Nothing Wrong With A Quickie
Sex doesn’t have to be planned. Even though some couples tend to schedule such intimate encounters, something more spontaneous can get the blood running. A quickie for instance should be fair game anytime. Don’t be afraid to try it even in places where you usually don’t have sex. It can be an exhilarating experience.
5. Performance Enhancement
I know there is still some stigma around using performance enhancement medication to enhance your sex life. But don’t worry. There are more discreet ways to get your preferred dose. Erectile dysfunction is one of the major causes of a poor sex life. But you actually don’t have to suffer from this any longer. Products like RestimDM can help you get fuller and stronger erections. This will in turn lead to a satisfying and fulfilling sexual experience for you and your partner.
It is also important to look desirable for your partner and personal grooming plays a huge role in this. Make sure that you take a nice shower before going to bed. Use some scented soap or apply lotion so that you smell good. Grooming around the genitals is also highly recommended.
7. Forget About the Orgasms First
You should never at any point feel the pressure of making your partner orgasm during sex. I know there is a certain level of pride that comes when you make your partner reach climax. But if that is the only focus, it’s very likely you will fall short of the target. A good rule would be to fully focus on the heat of the moment. Be intuitive about your partners needs and try to make the encounter as enjoyable for her as you can. Eventually, the orgasm will come naturally.
8. Let Her Take the Lead Sometimes
Men will normally take the lead role during sex. They will initiate sex and pretty much determine how everything will proceed thereafter. Well, there is nothing wrong with this in fact most women love men who take charge. However, it may also be a good idea to let her take the lead role every now and then. Just relax and submit to her. You may end up enjoying the experience more than you imagined.
Foreplay is a must before sex. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, it is something you can’t afford to ignore. Foreplay can help set the stage for a very fulfilling sexual experience, including intense orgasms. Kissing, touching, and oral sex are very good places to start when it comes to foreplay. But you have to also make sure the mood is right. You can take her out for a nice dinner, surprise her with some flowers, or anything else that tickles her fancy. Women are more likely to enjoy sex if they are in the right state of mind and foreplay contributes a lot to that.
10. Abstinence May Also Help
Believe it or not, spending time away from your partner makes you desire her even more. You don’t even have to go away for a trip or something like that. You can start by resisting the temptation of having sex until a point where you can’t take it anymore.
Having a great sex life is not as hard as it looks. It all starts with simple things. Well, the ten simple tips above should help bring back those exciting sexual encounters you used to have.